My husband and I lived in our South Charlotte neighborhood for about a year before we had any meaningful interaction with our neighbors. Then one weekend, I showed up to the pool sporting 38 weeks of pregnancy. Suddenly I was the new neighbor to meet. When you enter motherhood, you’re instantly baptized into a cult,… Continue reading The Cult of Mom Friends
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The Terrifying Isolation of Postpartum Depression
It hit me when we were packing up to leave the hospital. As I dressed my daughter in her first outfit and placed her in her carrier, I got an anxious feeling in my stomach. It got worse as we got on the elevator, then into the car. By the time we pulled into our… Continue reading The Terrifying Isolation of Postpartum Depression
Motherhood and the Loss of Identity, Inappropriateness, and Impulsivity
You know all those things they don’t tell you about becoming a parent until it’s too late? The necessary self-editing has been the most jarring one for me. Here’s an experiment that will communicate this parenting struggle: Take a couple of your favorite rated R movies and then edit them down to be appropriate for… Continue reading Motherhood and the Loss of Identity, Inappropriateness, and Impulsivity
How Howard Stern Helped Soothe My 8 Year Old Daughter’s Anxiety
How my anxious child was helped when I got hypnosis therapy. When my husband told me that I might be causing my daughter’s intense separation anxiety, I wanted to hold his head underwater. After all, he was the one that passed the anxiety gene down to her. I am the cool, laid back, easygoing person in our house. They are the… Continue reading How Howard Stern Helped Soothe My 8 Year Old Daughter’s Anxiety
8 Important Points to Remember When Talking to your Children about Sexual Abuse
I spoke on a panel about sexual abuse last week. One of the questions we received: How can parents properly educate their children about sexual abuse? It was a discussion that I wish every parent could hear. Here were some of my notes… 1.Stranger danger conversations are important to have. But the primary conversation needs to… Continue reading 8 Important Points to Remember When Talking to your Children about Sexual Abuse